Monday, April 6, 2009

Royal's Accident

Yes that's right Royal had an accident at work today.  He was driving a forklift and a large gate was swinging shut and heading straight for his head/side.  He stuck his left arm out to stop the gate from hitting him in the head.  Some how this 10 foot iron gate ricocheted back and smashed his arm between the forklift and the gate.  So he has a bad break in his left arm.  Yes he is laughing in the picture.  Every since Royal was little he would break out in uncontrolable laughter if he was in pain.  Go figure!  The funny thing is when the Doctors and nurses start laughing because he can't stop laughing!
Just a recap on the last few weeks!
March 19, 2009 - We lost our beautiful Grandson, Sage, to SIDS.

March 21, 2009 - Kaitlen is taken to the ER for a sore shoulder and we learn it is broken. Kaitlen is removed from Jessica and John's home on suspected child abuse charges. TWO doctors confirm there was no abuse and that she has what they call "Soft Clavicles" or soft bones. The paper work at CPS moves very slowly and it looks like Kaitlen will be with us a while. This has been very hard on everyone...especially Kaitlen who wants nothing more than to be with mom and dad.

March 21, 2009 - In the evening Trey and RaLee are jumping on the trampoline and he breaks his right leg just under the knee. He is now wheel chair bound.
March 22, 2009 - Spencer takes Trey and Jayden to urgent care for possible ear infections. The Dr. on duty tell's Spencer Jayden has a heart murmur and can't believe it wasn't diagnosed as an infant. Another Dr. say's she is okay after testing on her heart. What a scare to have especially after Sage's passing.

March 25, 2009 - We lay our sweet little Sage to rest with his Uncle Kenny.
March 30, 2009 - A 15 year old boy takes a home made bomb to school and throws it into a crowd of student before school starts. My daughter, RaLee, was just feet away from being injured but my niece, Marissa, wasn't so lucky. She sustained burns to the back of her neck, shoulders and backs of her arms.
April 2, 2009 - On the two week anniversary of Sage's passing Crystal, Spencer, Trey and Jayden are in a car accident comming home from taking Jayden to the Doctor's to have her heart checked out and then Easter shopping. Crystal breaks her elbow and wrist and seperates her ribs from the sternum.
April 6, 2009 - Royal is in a fork lift accident at work. But bones heal and it could have been worse.

My brother told me, "Sister take all of the mattresses off of the beds and completely pad a room.  Put the entire family inside and wait until the dark cloud passes."  That might not be a bad idea.  I mean really?  I will say through it all none of us have asked, "Why Me?"  instead we say "Why Not Me?"  I can't help but wonder just how bad everyone would have been if so many people, even complete strangers, weren't praying for our family?  He never gives us more than we can handle I'm just thankful we don't have to handle it alone.  Thanks for all of your prayers and
thoughtful words.

16 comments:

The Parks Family said...

I dont know you but a friend told me to add you and your family to my prayer list. I am amazed at how strong your faith is and you are an inspiration to so many people around you. I am so sorry for your loss and you are in our prayers. God Bless you.
Brooke

Grandma a/k/a Kathy said...

OH MY GOSH!! I am going to find a huge plastic bubble or hamster ball and bring it over for you to put all your loved ones in! I agree with your brother! You need protection until this dark cloud passes! I am so thankful for the example of love and family that you are. I hope and pray that our family is never tested in the manner your is being, but I also pray that if we ever are, that we are able to handle it with the grace, faith and understanding that your family has! *BIG HUGZ** Hang in there, my friend!

Ceekay-THINKIN of HOME said...

I just am so sorry for your family. Many people are praying for them. No brillant words. I just know that the Lord is with you, walking every step of the way with you all.

Sharron said...

So he laughs, huh? What a wonderful weird way to react to pain, wish more people did that one!

Your are in our prayers continually! Give the goober a hug for me!

BeckyinQC said...

I just wanted you to know that I think of your family everyday and pray that things get better soon. My heart is broken for Crystal and Spencer and I hope that things take a turn for the better soon.

From reading all of your recent posts, I can't help but think that you are doing a great job of helping your family right now. Your family is blessed to have you helping them through all of these challenges and I know they must be grateful to you. I remember when I lost my little girl it was my mom that just "knew" what to do to help me. Although I was grateful at the time to her, I am even more so now. Things would have been worse without her there to help me and my family. Keep up the good work. Your a blessing to your family!

Gone said...

You have ALL been so strong through all these "happenings"! And...only GOD could make you that strong!

We continue to pray for you and your family and have added them to our prayer list.

~Blessings,
Jan & Tom

Connie said...

Honey, I have to tell you that when I saw that picture of Sage's mummy and daddy holding him for the last time and his little body already showing the signs of his mortal death I cried and cried and cried. I could hardly stand it. I'm blubbering at this very moment and just can't seem to stop. My eyes and face actually hurt from all the crying these past 3 days so I'm only imagining what you all went through. That sweet little baby being held and kissed and cried over by his mum and dad just absolutely tore my heart in two. I don't know how they got through it other than our religion. I'm LDS also.

I've truly tried to have hate in my heart but it just isn't there and won't come. I guess this General Conference touched and prepared me for things to come.

I hope your days are becoming a bit better and please tell your daughter and son how much that touched my heart.

xoxo,
Connie

Chari at Happy To Design said...

Hello Liz...

I'm just a fellow blogger and believer who wanted to stop by to let you know that you and your family have been and continue to be in my prayers!!! You know...I just feel speechless...there really are no words that can express my heart and feelings about your loss of precious little Sage and all of the problems that have befallen upon your family...but I can pray!!! And that I'm doing!!!

I do praise the Lord along with you for the good report on Crystal's healing!!! May the Lord do as He has promised and bring forth joy from the mourning!!!

Warmest wishes,
Chari

The Shiflet Family said...

Liz,
I just wanted to tell you what an example you are to me and everyone else around you. Your family is the only other "Soap Opera" family I have ever met besides my own (Soap Opera meaning you couldn't even write this stuff it is so unbelievable!) I am just so sorry for all of your trials. And after reading this post, I think that you are right to try to stay positive, because as bad as it has been, I'm sure your family has been protected from even worse things (hard to imagine, but I know it's true). I know that through all of this your family is closer to our Savior then you know, and that you have concourses of angels surrounding you and each member of your family, and that your prayers are not just coming from the people that are on this earth. I am putting your name in the temple today. And I as well will continue to pray for you. Much Love,
Summer

Connie said...

Liz, Jan told me Crystal is healed. I'm sure it must have been a Priesthood blessing that did it. Am I right??? I'm so thrilled for her. So much tragedy for them. Mine is nothing compared to hers. Heads up, chick........
xoxo,
Connie

Mariah said...

Your family is never far from my thoughts and prayers. My mom scared the pants off me when she called and asked if I'd read any blogs...then started with they're alright, but... I vote you've all had enough, and think your brother was on to something with the padded room idea. Take care of yourselves. Love you guys!

Lauren said...

I'm not sure how I found your blog but please know my thoughts and prayers are with all of your family. I pray that no more tragedy or accidents befall your beautiful family. We may be strangers but I pray only good things happen from here on.

~Katie said...

Oh my, I just cannot believe all that you and your family has been through. You certainly are a strong unit and God is certainly watching over as well as your gaurdian angel Sage. My prayers are with you.
Love,
Katie

Mariah said...

Tell Royal that I'm sorry that his arm is still broken, but it was nice that he was willing to trade with Crystal. :-D Hope all the other injuries heal well. Take care of yourselves. Love ya...

Me said...

Oh my goodness! I am absolutely flabbergasted at the atrocities that your family has had to face, especially poor poor Crystal in losing her baby. PLEASE pass on to your family my very best wishes and prayers for their peace and comfort.

In Jesus name I pray,

Amen

Trina said...

Hi Dear Liz, I finally remembered that you had a blog and you had sent me the address awhile back so here I am! I am so sorry I wasn't there for Sage's funeral. You and your family and especially Crystal and Spencer and their family have been in my prayers and thoughts everyday. I just read your latest entry and I cannot believe everything you and your family have been going through! But Liz, you a very strong spiritual woman and you have always been a great example to me from the time we first met! I hope to get down that way soon and have a face to face visit! I love you Liz and all of your family and you all will continue to be in our prayers!
Love, Your Forever Friend Trina